Everybody cries sometimes. Many of us smother up at weddings--and equal at wedding scenes in cheesy movies. We memorize weepy when our five-year-old starts kindergarten and when our 18-year-old leaves for body And, of course, we make an outcry when life hands us a blow-the illness of a friend, say, or the los of a do job-work Some of us burst into tears when we experience any able to endure emotion. We cry when we're angry at our husband or when we're mov on a kind gesture or flat if we're just surprised. Tears, say psychologists, may benefit as a substitute for words, erupting when we can't find the language